The State Of Bleeding Heart

Recently I learnt one of the most important lessons of life. Life is too short to think about if you’re making everyone happy. The only person you should concentrate in making happy ever is you. Everyone in this world should be responsible for their own happiness. You are not everyone’s unpaid therapist. By this, I don’t mean you should stop caring about the other people or stop being empathetic towards them. What I mean over here is that if your gave your best, you should not ruin your mood just because the other person is unhappy with you. Being happy or unhappy is a state of mind for which an individual is responsible solely. So stop blaming yourself for other person’s unhappiness. Acknowledge your emotions. Acknowledge that you are doing the best you can. Tell yourself that you are not to be blamed if some other person is unhappy with you. The fault is not in you. This is for all those people who are too soft hearted and take things directly to heart. Maybe we won’t ever learn this lesson. Maybe our brain is wired this way. Maybe we will always stay in the state of a bleeding heart.

PS That’s the abstract art I made to showcase the state of bleeding heart. 🙂

Also, I feel that the ones who feel emotions at very high intensity are very strong. It’s a strength indeed.